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Message for ‘V’
		Dear ’V’
 
You are currently unsettled and contemplating own life and worth, this is brought on by a relationship issue and it is the relationship that must be addressed.
 
Eating something that disagrees with you and this adds to your ‘pulled down’ feelings.
 
The bright bubbly person inside must be rediscovered.
 
Writing thoughts in a diary helps release tension and gain perspective. Write a letter to your guide and ask for guidance in your sleep.
 
Unhappy about a scar or body issue but you must look beyond this and research others that are worse off to appreciate how lucky you are in comparison. This relates to a lack of confidence that can only be addressed by positive thinking. Try meditation or relaxation techniques. Address this matter and there is a bright route ahead and some good fortune.
 
Spirit link to Marie/Maria/Mary and she is giving you a gift like a birthday present now so this must be near a birthday or anniversary for you.
 
Feel or open up to the love of angels around you and do not fear the future and whilst I know you have 3 kids in the picture, I see you and 2 children (or maybe they are siblings) together more. (My guess is you may have to lean on your family for support).
 
Change of career direction maybe in the same or similar field but as a job possibly with a big company could be your way forward. Are you thinking this? If so maybe you should do it!
 
Purple flowers with a lovely scent brings upliftment.
 
Blonde/light curly haired old lady (mother figure) brings love to you. You must open up to feel that around you. More love and peace is on its way if you can lift yourself from a problem in your current relationship.
 
Hope the above helps.
 
Best wishes.
 
AlanC
		
	    
	
	    
	    		
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	Raising Vibration to Communicate with Spirit
		I was recently asked how I raise vibration to communicate with spirit?
 
Firstly one must be sat in a comfortable position.
 
Then ensure thorough grounding to differentiate physical body from spirit form.
 
Cleanse the spirit with prayer and place protection (one could imagine being surrounded by pure white light).
 
Vibrations are increased with positive energy feelings so yes be happy and uplifted. Also say preparatory prayers and include prayers for your spirit guide(s).  However, it is also important to acknowledge with humility, the reasons WHY one is ‘working’ with spirit. Generally it is for the greater good, but one needs to relate in this, to those that are less fortunate and those who are suffering, in order to attune with spirit in a shared love and compassion for human kind. This places emphasis on the aspect that we are working from a basis of peace and love for others and not self gratification or ego. In effect one must go down to go up!
 
After this period of adjustment and refocus the spirit guides should then step in to commence the linking process with spirit, when, free of any outside or internal distractions, the medium should then be free to connect to spirit and provide messages or philosophy etc unhindered. 
 
		
	    
	
	    
	    		
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	Beware the Dark Path
It is all around us
Yet we cannot see it
It probes our mind and body
And would take hold if we let it
We must be alert and watchful
Take care not to slip
A moment is all it takes
Then we are caught in its web
What is this then
The great unseen?
It is the darkness we must be wary of
And I mean not, a physical lack of light
It is ill thought
Unchecked raw emotions
Mistreatment of others
And worse!
Embrace it we must not
Fight it with love and light
Forgive those who would trespass against us
And be led not into temptation
Free will we have yes
But exercise it wisely for the right outcome
If we are what we think
Then be pure of thought toward others.
Amen
	    		
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	Middle East
		In a Middle Eastern Country embroiled in turmoil there is a clear line between two factions. A leader will emerge from one of them that all of the people will support and this will lead to a bloody war.
 
Extremists will support this war and the involvement of others will lead to the fall of countries like dominoes which will mark a dark period for three generations.
 
A good person, pure of heart shall be borne out of the desert to give simple philosophy which will open eyes and turn the tide for the good of human kind the world over.
 
Pray for for world peace. X
		
	    
	
	    
	    		
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	Fishermen lost at sea…
		During meditation I received a message from a fisherman.
 
Displaying an image of a squally sea and med possibly ‘Greek’ Islands, he appeared to be of an age between early and late fourties. He advised that the storm closed in and took 2 out of the 3 men on the boat.
 
He leaves a wife and daughter (who was in her early teens at the time) and they lived in a small hillside house/villa. He says he loves his wife and daughter. His message is for them to look at the picture/ornament with the fishing net on it and to remember him at his best and not the pain of loss.
 
The fisherman says there is also a younger sailor with him, slim, long dark hair and muscular of late twenties/early thirties. He also says please do not blame the master/skipper as it was not his fault. Please move on for loves sake.
 
They send their love. X
		
	    
	
	    
	    		
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	Believe in yourself…
In spiritualist circles one is often asked by novices faced with the initial ’perceiving’ of spirit, and interested parties alike, how can I/you trust what I/you receive by intuition? How do I/you know what is real? The answer is to believe in one’s self, learn to tell the difference between tricks of the eye/mind and illusions, and actual intuition. Never engage in self delusion.
Self Delusion – the act of deceiving one’s self about some aspect of reality! Why would you do it? - to follow the crowd - to escape from reality - to try and impress others - to seek glory Why you should not do it! - you mislead others and yourself - you make others uncomfortable - you block you own progress - you incur negative side effects, mistrust, ridiculeUltimate lesson…
Do not engage in self-delusional acts as this leads to a downward spiral of negative effects. When one accepts this concept, one becomes free of such negative effects and then, uninhibited, is more capable of receiving the true energies of enlightenment.
Love and Light be with you – Alan Carter
	    		
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	A poem for Dad…
		Dear Dad
 
I cannot say in words or pictures
 That which I feel in my heart
You know I love you always
When we are near or apart
 
You’ve been there to inspire me
And guide me through my day,
Know I’m proud to be your son
 In each and every way
 
Although at times words fail me
As your illness makes me sad
I need to simply say to you
Thanks for being my DAD.
 
God Bless.
		
	    
	
	    
	    		
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	Helping a loved one facing death…
When a loved one (or indeed any person you may come across) is facing death it is difficult for all concerned. However, in order to help that loved one, it is necessary to lay one’s own feelings aside.
Put oneself in the place of that loved one to gain even a small understanding of their position and the thoughts that may be in their mind.
First and foremost the loved one facing death, is fearful of what they are leaving behind and also of what may lay ahead. If a life partner or guardian, then this fear is increased several fold, as the loved one is concerned for the ongoing welfare of those to be left behind and the impact that will result from their passing.
This then is the starting point, whereby effort must be directed into providing reassurance for the loved one that all will be well both in their transition and for those left behind.
In the hope that this helps the reader, I reproduce below the nature of the discussion (one way only unfortunately) that I held with my own father just 9 hours before his passing from lung cancer…
Hi Dad. While we are quiet I would just like to let you know that everything is fine as far as sorting matters out. We know you have to leave us dad and I just want to say that you needn’t worry. We have been putting all the necessary arrangements in place. So its ok dad to go your way whenever you feel ready. You can’t fight the inevitable dad, so just relax and let your mind be at peace. I know what has to be done and don’t worry I will look after mam and we can sort the bills. Everything will run smoothly dad.Being a medium I was also able to give my father some additional reassurance, which one could also give from my own lesson…
Relax and be calm dad. When the time is right you will see Nana and Grandad and Mark. [One would swap this for their own close family member(s)]. They will guide you through a tunnel of bright light, with colours all around it, do not be frightened but relax. You will be led home dad. You will feel weightless and light and it will feel strange but don’t worry all will be well. Just trust in the feelings of love being projected towards you. I love you dad (I kissed dad’s forehead). I have prepared myself for your departure, as we all have, so fear not dad. We will always love you.I also explained to Dad that we would meet again and he could talk to me when alI was still and I would hear him.
When my father first became ill I made him an Angel card and inside I created the following verse. Again, this may be useful for someone wishing to express his or her own feelings of love towards a father…
Dear Dad I cannot say in words or pictures That which I feel in my heart You know I love you always When we are near or apart You’ve been there to inspire me And guide me through my day, Know I’m proud to be your son In each and every way Although at times words may fail me As your illness makes me sad I need to simply say to you Thanks for being my DAD. God Bless. The above is also reproduced in poetry corner
	    		
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	Coping with loss of a loved one…
What is this lonely path, I tread since my loved one has gone?
Snatched before their time and leaving me empty inside
Yet still, my eyes cannot close, without seeing them before me
How cruel this mind of mine that is reluctant to accept cold truth!
I cling on to my memories, refusing to accept god’s love
Yet what would life be about, were it not for times like this?
To blame God is not fair, as so for any that had laid no cause
Life’s tragedies can be many, human kind tainted, plagued or weak
Plot a course through this we must, or suffer torment ever more
It is right and just to grieve awhile but then we must find our way.
Yes we know their habits of old and we see no future without
But others have been here before us and many more will follow
How then to set example and do right by those that are left?
Self destruction not an option. Every day is a precious gift.
First we must get our mind back, set objectives, write them down
Then on a ladder of renewing ambition, strengthen our malnourished body
The way forward will be hard at first, and will require us to smile. Yes at others too!
Now-alien thoughts of faith, hope, self belief and courage , will pervade our darkest corners
Time? Who knows! Starting with a single step, find a will to do and try
Driven by survival instincts that are as natural as the mourning we will carry forever in our hearts!
Let them live-on through your life and make them proud!
	    		
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	Prayer for the suffering…
A prayer for those who are suffering each day
May they feel our love help them on their way
Let it bring them peace, give them strength to bear
To ease their suffering and support god’s care.
	    		
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